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Tuesday Mar 10, 2026
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Reclaiming Destiny
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
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It's Time To Reclaim...
We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.
June Is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month
Here at Reclaiming Destiny we believe in reclaiming our health- this is why all month long we will be advocating for men's mental health awareness.
Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici
Are You Truly Ready For Love?
Think you’re ready for love? Take our quiz, “Are You Ready for Love”, and find out! It’s a fun and thoughtful way to explore where you are in your relationship journey, what you truly want, and whether your heart is open to the possibilities ahead. Tune in, take the quiz, and discover what love might have in store for you.
Let's Talk About Sex
Sex is an important aspect of our overall well-being, and understanding the many factors that impact our sexual health can help us make informed choices. In the following sections, we will share a variety of articles that explore different topics related to sexual health, offering insights and information to support a healthy and fulfilling life.
How Many Dates Should You Have Before Sex?
Don't Waste Your Sexual Energy
Are You A Pick Me?
"Pick Me Syndrome" describes a pattern where individuals seek validation by constantly striving to be chosen or approved by others, often at the expense of their own needs or self-worth. This behavior can stem from deeper self-esteem issues and may lead to feelings of inadequacy or resentment. To support those who may be experiencing these challenges, we'll share a quick affirmation to help boost self-confidence and promote a healthier sense of self.
Feel free to repeat the following affirmation as many times as you need to: I AM ENOUGH
Need Help Leaving An Abusive Relationship?
As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...
Episodes
Episodes
Sunday Mar 08, 2026
Sunday Mar 08, 2026
Content warning: This episode includes discussion of emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse, coercive control, trauma responses, and family estrangement.
Important note: This episode is educational and not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services. If it’s safe to do so, consider contacting a local domestic violence hotline/shelter for confidential safety planning.
In this episode, we talk about what it can look like to leave abusive relationships —moments, cycles, or patterns that keep repeating in a relationship—and how to create safer distance when a relationship shows abusive or toxic tendencies. We focus on practical tools (planning, documentation, boundaries, support networks, and nervous-system regulation) while acknowledging that leaving can be complex, non-linear, and different for every person. We also discuss The Oprah Podcast episode “Oprah Explores the Rising Trend of Going No Contact with Your Family,” and we break down the five trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop.
Cici also discusses the concept of “spiritually vetting” our most important relationships.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788
Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.thehotline.org/
https://www.apa.org/topics/stress/body
https://www.virtualpsychiatriccare.com/understanding-the-five-fs-of-trauma-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-and-flop
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
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Tuesday Mar 03, 2026
Tuesday Mar 03, 2026
Cici introduces "Leaving Abusive Relationships" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs.
Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
Tuesday Feb 24, 2026
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit... Therefore honor God with your bodies." - (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)
Welcome to this week’s episode, where we dive deep into the powerful practice of radiating self-love. Join us as we explore what it truly means to love yourself from the inside out, and how cultivating self-acceptance can positively impact every area of your life.
Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.verywellmind.com/self-care-strategies-overall-stress-reduction-3144729
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
"Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV
"Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.
In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.
Podcasts Referenced In this Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/
Resources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982
https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/
https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
Connect With Us
Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny
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