Cici's Spotlight
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici

Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.
Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.

We are at a tipping point. We can no longer sit on the sidelines of our lives. We must rise...we must heal...and we must reclaim our destiny.
After being diagnosed with Complex PTSD in 2018, after years of traumatic experiences, I was hit with the realization of how much I had given my power away to people, places and things that did not honor who I was or more importantly, were hinderances to where God wanted to take me.
The next several years after my diagnosis was spent relearning how to take back or shall I say...reclaim that power.
Many positive things were born from this newly reclaimed power including my dignity, self-esteem, and authority.
I created this podcast to help show you that if I can do it...so can you!
Join me each week on Reclaiming Destiny and we can start this journey together.
I hope you can make it but more importantly...I hope this is the start of you...reclaiming your destiny.

March is Women's History Month! Join us here at Reclaiming Destiny, as we celebrate ALL women all month long and everyday of the year.
“I'm happy to shine a spotlight on love and relationships for season two, as these are very important dynamics- that will aid us on our path to reclaiming our destiny.”
-Cici

As referenced in season 2, episode #10 "Loving In The Dark".
Want to know just how common the issue of secret or "DL" connections are?
Check out these articles from Psychology Today, BBC, and Medium.
https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55
https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd

As referenced in season 2, episode #9 "Cultivating Healthy Relationships".
Want to know three things you can do to start making the relationships in your life more healthier or to grow an already establish bond?
Check out the 3 Ways to Cultivate Healthy Relationships guide.
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/p/cici-s-ebooks-info-guides-and-pdf-s/

As referenced in season 2, episode #8 "Setting Healthy Boundaries".
Do you set clear boundaries in your life? Or do you over-give, have a hard time saying no, or allow others to take advantage of you?
If this is something you struggle with or if you would like more information on the topic ...check out these articles from Psychology Today and Positive Psychology.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/boundaries
https://positivepsychology.com/great-self-care-setting-healthy-boundaries/

As referenced in season 2, episode #7 "Leaving Abusive Relationships".
Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788 or go to their website at the link below...


Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
Tuesday Feb 17, 2026
"Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV
"Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.
In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.
Podcasts Referenced In this Episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/
https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/
Resources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982
https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/
https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Karmic and counterfeit relationships are connections that may feel intense or fated, but often leave us feeling unsettled or diverted from our authentic path.
These relationships are typically marked by recurring patterns, emotional highs and lows, and lessons that push us to grow through challenges.
They can enter our lives to test our boundaries, highlight unresolved issues, or reveal what we truly want out of our connections.
Recognizing the signs of a karmic or counterfeit relationship can help us realign with our purpose and choose relationships that nurture our growth.
This episode explores how to identify these connections, the role they play in our personal journey, and tips for moving forward with greater self-awareness.
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
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Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of soulmates and explore why the concept is so much more than just finding a romantic partner. Join us as we challenge some of the common myths about soulmates and open new perspectives on connection, friendship, and personal growth.
Key Takeaways
Soulmates aren’t limited to romance—they can be anyone who profoundly impacts your journey.
Deep connections often teach us important life lessons, whether they last forever or not.
Being open to different types of soulmate relationships can enrich your life in unexpected ways.
Check out my free guide on The Four Types of Soulmates:
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
Thursday Feb 12, 2026
In this episode of "In Sickness and In Health," we dive deep into the ways health challenges impact marriages and long-term partnerships. Join us as we discuss the promises, the pressures, and the profound moments couples face when illness enters the relationship.
We’ll explore how couples navigate the vows of "in sickness and in health," sharing real stories and expert insights.
Notably, a 2015 study from Iowa State University found that 32% of marriages in their sample ended in divorce, highlighting the real challenges couples may face when health issues arise.
Whether you’re in a relationship, supporting someone who is, or just curious about the impact of health on love and commitment, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical tips.
Tune in for an honest conversation about love, resilience, and the realities couples face when health is on the line.
Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:
Resources – Iyanla R spot episode: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-the-r-spot-with-iyanla-99762091/episode/grief-shows-you-how-people-love-114821146
Shannon Doherty Let’s Be Clear episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-be-clear-this-is-only-the-beginning/id1718531401?i=1000637642219
Reclaiming Destiny episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/id1757034675?i=1000749526702
Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly
https://linktr.ee/cicistephen
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Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

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